People Who Need People

     One of my favorite people is going through a kinda rough patch right now. So I thought I'd post this for them.

     We fall in love. Sometimes it's an accident. Sometimes it's completely on purpose. But all-in-all, it's going to happen. And it can be so confusing, horrifying, depressing and wrong. But it can also be totally beautiful, wonderful, happy and so right. All of that simply depends on the situation at hand.

     In this situation, somebody started to have feelings for someone else who didn't reciprocate the feelings. Oh man. This is the most common and heartbreaking of all the sad stories. They get together, have a few good laughs, a couple awesome dates. Maybe make out a bit. It's all totally normal human stuff. But sadly, the one who cares can't get what they want. They want emotions and feelings. The other one is afraid and breaks things off. This can happen all the time.

     So what is this emotional person to do now? They just lost someone they care about. What could they possibly do that could make them happy? Well, I'm happy to say that there are SO many things.

1. Stay positive! Just look at the bright side of things in any situation.

2. Find a distraction. Whenever you start thinking about that person, find a healthy way to distract yourself! Exercise, writing, singing, playing video games. Whatever. Just find something to help.

3. Move on. Do NOT live in the past. Do everything you can to simply move on. I know for a cold hard fact that this is much easier said than done, but try your hardest. It really pays off.

     Those are my 3 best bits of advice. And there are so many other things you can do.

     So to my friend whom this is for, I love you. And hey, you are so much stronger than you think. Find that inner strength and don't let this one bring you down. Maybe it's not the first time, and maybe it's not the last, but just remember that you have so many people that care about YOU. Want to know why? It's because YOU are amazing. This is a very minor slip up. You have so many more opportunities headed your way. And you say you can't find anyone because nobody notices you? I find that SO hard to believe. They're most definitely just nervous. There is someone out there. Maybe they aren't perfect, but nobody truly is. That person will connect with you on more levels than anyone else. They'll love you unconditionally. They'll be your best friend. I hope you find that person someday. I know you will! Just remember that time can be a total B. Seriously. But YOU ARE STRONG.

     And to everyone else? Ditto. (muahaha, I got you.) But seriously, it goes for all of you.